Lost Friends

Have you ever had that feeling that you're losing friends?

I do.

My friends don't seem to want to keep in touch with me.

Erm..so am I paranoid?

I don't get yum char calls. If ever I do, it's me calling.
I don't get 'let's meet up' calls.
Shall we go shopping?

But then again, I'm not such a social chic.

So why this impression?

Because I see that my husband's friends keep in touch. They call each other to go out for drinks and food. Occassionally they try to get everyone to meet up.

And I see that lacking in my life.

Am I such a terrible friend to have?

Or did I choose friends that are like me? Complacent..I'm not bothered to call if no one calls..

Or have we drifted apart? Found new friends, enjoying the company of our boyfriends more?